Secrets Of Arousing A Woman‏ - Part 2

Listen, OBVIOUSLY you want to score. If you didn't, you wouldn't go to the trouble of wooing this lady, or setting the right mood, or reading this book even.

But you can't let that be your OBVIOUS DIRECT goal when you're in the process. You need to concentrate on the PROCESS, and your GOAL should be as slick as you can.

Do that, and yeah, the sex will come (woohoo!), but if all you worry about is the sex that gets telegraphed to your lady in the worst possible way. So, again, RELAXED playfulness is the key. While you are sexually cuing her you don't want it to be overtly SEXUAL, as we've discussed before. You want it to be FUN.

The mistake most men make when they try to turn up the notch is they suddenly get too SERIOUS. Think about it. Imagine yourself in a first kiss. How often are either of you smiling as you go into it in your head? Admit it. Not much. Most likely your imagination has you both laughing, catching each others' eye, sobering up with a soulful look, and then a lustful lip-lock.

Listen, it can work that way. Just like people can fall in love at first sight. However, when you get SERIOUS at this crucial moment you cause her to think SERIOUSLY about it. Suddenly she's switched into "Is he mate material?" mode and, unless you've got a deep spiritual connection going, she's gonna have some doubts.

You don't want doubts. You don't want all those somber questions floating around. Hell, it's just a kiss! Stop treating it like a life-long pairing. Keep it RELAXED.
Keep it PLAYFUL. Keep it FUN.

So no, don't be brave about the kiss. If it takes that much bravado, you've already built it up too much. Treat it like you've been there before. Like a natural extension of the fun you're having. And not like you're entering some new chapter in a saga, but just part of the path.

Trust me, this works.

To Be Continue - Part 3
Seduction Science