What Women Want

Dear Friend,

Have you ever struggling and ask yourself what women really want?

After many years of experience, let me tell you a little small secrets of mine that I had discovered. Ok without further delay let me reveal my little secrets.

Dating girls is all about Confidence, Attraction and Seduction. All 3 factors come with one elements. Which is call EMOTION.

Ok! Why I Say That?
-In order to get her fall in love or to make her want you.. You will need to trigger her emotion, emotion = feeling..

- Make her feel Relax with you
- Make her feel Happy with you
- Make her Comfortable with you
- Make her Care about you
- Make her Miss you and etc...

Can you see all the words I bold? There are all related to the emotion.
# In order to date a girl, you'll need to TRIGGER HER EMOTION.

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First date, First Kiss! - Part 1

Hey guys, just want to share some of my recent success stories with dating girls...

Recently, I had dated 3 different girls.

So, you guys must be thinking what so proud about that!

Well, Is nothing proud actually... Is just that:

Out of 3 girls.. I manage to kiss 2 of them on the first date. Wow!

How about that?

The first one, Name A, 28 years old from other state in my country. She came to my town for her company annual dinner. Well we hangout at one of the happening pub & bistro near around my area. I knew her from the internet Zorpia network. All the while we just chatting on msn and sms each others.

OK.. straight to the point.. That night..was wonderful.. I am doing some cocky and funny chatting with her.. attaching some nice touch on her body.. stroking her hair, pinching her arms, and the next thing i remember is we are dancing in the dance floor...at first she was abit shy.. but i take care of that.. holding her hands.. dancing, turn her on steps by step.. holding her waist.. playing around on her waist.. hugging her, smile on her.. eye to eye contact.. finally.. cuddling.. and she was turn on and putting her hands over my shoulder.. and i lean on her and give her the magic kiss.. until she asking for more :P

Well guys, lots of my friends besides me asking
"you 2 is couple right? i said.. well.. Nope.."

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(I got to get back to my work.. In the office right now :P)

Cya guys later...

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How to make her CRAZY for you - Part 2

Angelion: Hey Guys... How was the previous tips? Have you use it?

Here are the second part of "How to make her CRAZY for you!" Enjoy :)

Example #4: Some women like to touch a guy while they talk.
When a woman touches you on the leg, say in a serious tone,
"May you stop touching my leg?" Then when she seems thrown
off, say "Well, if you want to touch me, I would enjoy it
even more if you would touch me a little bit closer..."

Example #5: Let's say you're cuddling or making out with her,
try to smell her neck, kiss her, etc but then SUDDENLY STOP.
She's going to be all hot and bothered and ask you what's
wrong, etc. She may even put her arms around you to
try you to get back to it. After a few seconds, start making
out with her again...but more fiercely this time. This is a
VERY good way to advance through her boundaries.

Example #6: Be unpredictable. While sitting on a bench on a
date, suddenly pull her up and then give her a hug. Then
you say "I just wanted to hug you." If she asks you why,
say "Cause I felt like it." playfully or "I wanted to see
if you'd feel good to hug." If she asks you if you think
she's good, just say "Well, I think I need a second
try first..."


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How to make her Crazy For You! - Part 1

Hmmm.. How to make a woman get crazy for you? or even more...
* The answers is " Teasing "

What is " Teasing "?
Ok.

1. Making fun of a girl playfully
2. Arousing her and then pulling back

Basically, is to give her a "mixed signal"
Keep her wondering if you like her or not with
your words and body language.

Example 1: Instead of telling her you like her, you say "you
really like me" in a teasing manner. If you say "I really like
you", she may reject you on the spot because if it's direct
and blatant. But if you say "You really like me" PLAYFULLY,
then you can get away with it because you're just joking.

You may also accuse her of hugging you or kissing you a lot.
And then you give her a hug or kiss back. This will leave her
wondering if you're really attracted to her or not. Women
love MINDGAMES. They love to pick petals off a rose and say,
"He loves me, he loves me not"

Example 2: You can make fun of something small about her
(don't overdo it though). For example, say one of her earlobes
is lower than the other PLAYFULLY. (Being PLAYFUL is the key)
She will probably go like "No it's not!" Then you look into her
eyes and say, "It's all right, you're still pretty."

Example #3: Give her a personal nickname or tease her about
something that is special to both of you. Like if something
funny or interesting happens while on a date, use it to your
advantage.

(Angelion says.. I personally use the e.g.3. Is quite powerful..)

To be continue...

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Building "Connection" with a Woman - Part 2

Step two - Isolate Her from Her Friends

Once she’s giving you signs of interest, you'll want to get her AWAY from her friends.
ISOLATE her.
While you needed to engage her entire group of friends to establish your social value, once you have it, her friends will actually HINDER the coming Bond and Connection phase of the seduction.

To establish that deep rapport of bond and connection, you'll need to get the girl ALONE and talk with her one-on-one.
Separating her from her friends is rather easy to accomplish.
First tell the Object of Your Desire (OYD), “Hey, I have the coolest thing I’ve just got to show you this…”

This is a curiosity hook. She’ll ask you, “What is it?”
Tell her that you can’t show her here… it’s too loud or that you need to show her in private.
Now she’ll go with you, if you simply lead her. But you can’t take her just yet.
You still have to neutralize any potential objections from her peer group that you’ll be stealing her away from them.

Tell her group of friends, “Your friend and I like each other. I’m going to just borrow her for a few minutes. That’s cool with you guys.”
Telling her group, “Your friend and I like each other,” may seem bold, but it's actually based on cold fact at this point. She’s given you repeated signs of interest (I like you) and you’ve screened and accepted her (I like you back).
So when you tell her friends, “Your friend and I like each other,” the Object of Your Desire will give you no resistance.

Telling her group, “I’m going to just borrow her for a few minutes,” simply paces the action so that they won't be surprised when she disappears... and won't go looking for her when she does.
And telling the group, “That’s cool with you guys,” gets her group’s verbal, explicit permission for you to snatch her away and neutralizes any cock-blocking they might otherwise give you. If you’ve already demonstrated social value to the group, it’s highly unlikely that her friends will say no.

Step three - Building Bond and Connection

Now that you have her separated from her group, take her by the hand and lead her to a quieter place in the club.
Now’s the time to build that intimate sense of bond and connection with her. Why will it work now?

1. You already have social value to her.
2. She likes you. She’s been giving you signs of interest.
3. She knows you like her and that she had to work to earn your interest (screening and acceptance).
Now you need to show her that you’re not just an interesting club guy, but that you’re a REAL HUMAN BEING.

First, SIT DOWN with her.
Second, DROP the social value building techniques of social proofing, teasing, ignoring, balls busting, zany stories, psychological games, cocky posturing, and all that.
You ALREADY have HIGH social value to her. Doing more will just slow things down at best, trip things up at worst.

The point of Bond and Connection is to show her that you’re a NORMAL guy, not just a club guy. You’re about to reveal to her a little bit of your true, inner SOUL.
Third, once you have her isolated and sitting down with you, adjust your Nonverbal Sexual Cues.

Project the energy of sharing your soul and deep intimacy with her. Imagine that you’ve known this girl forever and she’s already your girlfriend. Imagine a tangible energy between the two of your bodies, like an electric current.
Your Nonverbal Sexual Cues will automatically adjust to the new frame - bedroom eyes, smiling up close, deep eye contact, your body and face completely turned toward hers, slow breathing, husky voice, and warm body heat.

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Building "Connection" with a Woman - Step 1

Angelion:" I personally found out that below tips is quite useful.. You can use it " Right Away "

Virtually all women want to feel an intimate sense of bond and connection with their man in a relationship.
So a lot of guys naturally attempt to establish that sense of bond and connection with a girl right away.

They approach a girl at a bookstore or club and attempt to establish deep rapport right away by eliciting her values or doing an incredible connection routine.
Unfortunately, they walk away brushed off by the girl and scratching their heads as to what they did wrong.

What went wrong is that they tried to establish an intimate bond and connection TOO SOON.
Yes, getting deep rapport with a girl is necessary - eventually.
But NOT at the first moment you meet her.
If you try for bond, connection, and deep rapport at the first moment you meet a girl, it will blow up in your face.

Why?
Because you don’t have enough Social Value to the girl yet.
It’s not that women don’t like that building that sense of bond and connection with a man. They LIKE it. They WANT it.
They just want to do it with a man with equal or higher social value than themselves.
If you jump directly into Bond and Connection (B&C) routines and material right away without establishing any social value first, you’ll just come across as another “nice guy”.

Step one - Build Social Value with a Girl
First, you have to build your social value to the girl. As I’ve discussed in detail before, there are many ways of doing this:
1. Social proof - she sees you talking with other hot girls

2. Nonverbal Sexual Cues - good voice, strong body language, eye contact, etc.

3. Ignoring social pressure - you walk right up to her, ignore everybody else extremely confident and brash

4. Your visual style - how you're dressed, groomed, etc

5. Demonstrating value obliquely - winning over her friends, telling cool stories, palm reading, etc

6. Disqualifying yourself - ignoring her in front of her friends

7. Screening her - make her earn your acceptance
Once you’re in her group of friends, have built social value for yourself, and screened her and accepted her, she’ll begin giving you signs of interest – touching you, smiling at you, turning her body to face you, attempt to initiate conversation with you, and so on.
This is the point – once you know she likes you – that you want to establish that deep, intimate, bond and connection with her.

To be continue... Step 2

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How to Flirt on the Net For Men - Part 1

1. WOMEN WANT TO BE TREATED WELL
The same rules of gentlemanly conduct that apply in life, apply on the Net. Woman want to be treated well. Respect her and you'll be a winner. Offend her, and you're out of the game.

2. LOVERS COME AND GO -- FRIENDS LAST FOREVER
Although there are some women who are looking for a casual one-net stand, most women want a Cyber-Seduction to grow out of a friendship. If you can create a comfortable & safe place, chances are she'll want to play more. Even the most sensuous encounters are still all about creating relationships. They may not be permanent, they may not have the deepest emotional intimacy, but the guidelines for good relating apply to Cyber- Love as well.

3. RECOGNIZE THE VARIOUS STAGES OF SEDUCTION
Different rules apply for each stage of seduction . Recognize what stage of the seduction you're in: First Stage: Making Contact. Second Stage: Flirting and Courtship. Third Stage: Cyber-Seduction. Success comes to the man who recognizes what stage he is in.

4. GETTING TO YES -- THE FIRST STAGE OF SEDUCTION
The first stage is making contact and determining if the woman is interested in your attention. At this initial stage most woman are still in the no thank you mode. This is not the best time to start sending her direct, sexual private messages, because she is still in the no stage. Establish a friendly connection first. Make sure she really wants to play before you escalate the game.
Assuming you have determined that she is responding to you, the next step is establishing a connection that is personal to the two of you. The art of the first stage is knowing how to make it personal without making it too personal. It requires sensitivity to know where her boundaries are at each stage.

5. LET THE GAMES BEGIN! THE SECOND STAGE OF SEDUCTION
The best flirtation is like a good game of tennis. Both players return volleys. If she is not responding at your pace, SLOW DOWN. There is no point in trying to `ace' her at this stage in the game. Be interested in her, who she is, not what she is! Ask questions, but don't make her feel like she's the subject of a `60 Minutes' interview. Never ask questions about her body parts, or her dimensions unless she's willing to volunteer that level of information. Ask open-ended questions like how do you feel about....? what do you like best about...? -- rather than closed questions like Do you like Classical music? Those kind of questions tend to lead to yes or no answers, perhaps bringing the conversation to a halt. Keep the game going. Always respond to her, never let a comment or question go by unanswered. If you don't have an answer, speak up (softly). Don't just be silent. Remember, she can't read your mind. It's easier to keep the connection going than it is to re-start it.

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What to do and not do when flirting with your date

Use Your Whole BodyTalking
The talk without walking the walk is utterly ineffective. Try telling a woman she's beautiful or a guy he's hunky and then shift your eyes away, and see if you're believed. Flirty body language begins with eyes and works its way all the way down to tips of your footsies. Lean forward, make eye contact, smile, bend your knees a bit and untense your hands and arms. Remember to relax a bit; this should be fun, not defusing a bomb.

Make Eye Contact
Looking someone in the eyes is very compelling. And it makes a person feel like they've got your're undivided attention, which they should.

Smile, don't smirk
There's a reason why synonyms for smirk include sneer, leer and grimace. It's an unattractive and unpleasant expression. Avoid it. Smile openly and sincerely - it's irresistible.

Pay Attention
No looking like you're trying to remember if you fed the cat.

Lighten Up, Don't Bulldoze
Telling your date they're incredibly hot isn't flirting. It's steering your dating experience directly into a mountain.

Don't think you can't do it
Anyone can flirt .... even if only a little. Flirting is a sign of confidence and even if you're feeling a teensy bit shaky, give it a try. Practice makes perfect and flirty. You don't have to be smooth, just sincere.

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3 Powerful Tips To Take Contacts Number Without Rejection

Hi Friend, It sounds obvious, but if you don't get off your butt and approach women you aren't going to have any numbers to call atthe end of the day. Many men procrastinate approaching women because they are scaredof rejection. There are many things you can do to significantly reduce yourchances of being rejected when asking woman's phone number. Hereare several...

TIP # 1 - Make rejecting you hard
This one secret alone will dramatically boost your chances ofgetting a woman's phone number... make it difficult to say no. Instead of saying, "Hey, can I get your phone number?" say, "Hey,is there a phone number I can reach you at?" Notice why the latter is better than the first? Of course there is a number you can reach her at so she will haveto say, "Umm, yes, there is a phone number you can reach me atbut I don't really want to talk to you again so, no, you can'thave it." in order for her to reject you. She's not likely to want to go through all that explanation...her laziness works to your advantage. :-)

TIP # 2 - Ask with authority
Asking a question leaves you wide open for a rejection. Salesmenhave known this for a long time and that is why they will oftentell a prospect to "order now" rather than say something like "wewould really appreciate it if you would consider ordering ourproduct... please???" By not asking in question form you reduce the likelihood that shewill view it as a yes or no question. A friendly "Hey, let me get your number" demonstrates much moreconfidence and charisma than "Can I get your number???" whichplaces you slightly below her on a psycho-social level (becauseshe has all the power in that situation - you are in a slightlyneedy/begging position).

TIP # 3 - Have a reason to contact her
While you are talking to her pinpoint one of her interests. Then,when it's time to leave say something like, "I had a great timetonight, hey, let me get your number so that we can [her interesthere] sometime." For instance, if you are one of the luckiest men alive and herinterest turns out to be football you would say, "Hey, let me getyour number so that we can go to a football game sometime." Now in order for her to say "no" she will also have to turn downan invitation to an activity that she already said that shereally enjoys. The great part about using this tip is that you also have thefirst date set up... So now you know how to get a woman's phone number but there is alot more to the dating game than that. If a woman isn't attractedto you then having her number won't matter because therelationship isn't going anywhere anyway! Creating attraction is EVERYTHING.

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The Magic Approach

It’s not about words, it’s not about looks, it’s not even about the first impression. The approach is all about the attitude. Most guys go in with the wrong one – and the fact that “openers” usually put you in the wrong frame doesn’t help. However, once you get over the initial stumbling block of fear, you’ll realize openers are easier than you’d ever imagined.

An Insightful Moment
I was having a conversation with a buddy of mine, one who lived in Japan a number of years.
He’d just broken up with his fiancé and we were talking about getting back in the game, back on the horse, drowning his sorrow in sex.
So naturally we were talking about openers, and I was curious – what did he think the best opener was for Japanese girls.
His answer was extremely revealing – “hi” seemed to work about as well as anything could.

The Japanese Example
Now my buddy was making a joke about how easy it is to get Japanese girls as a Westerner in the country, but I KNOW that’s not necessarily true – plenty of other friends had all sorts of problems getting ANYWHERE with women over there. And these weren’t ugly guys – some of them were quite handsome, and a number of them were even fluent in the language. In fact, a bunch of them didn’t get NEAR the same amount of women they got at home.
So it’s not like every woman has a big “Take Me Western Man” sign over her head.
HOWEVER, a lot of guys have heard this stereotype and buy it. They go to Japan thinking that every woman IS crazy for Americans, and will jump at the chance to be with one.
And you know what? For those guys, that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. They DO end up with a large bevy of Asian beauties hanging off their arms.
It’s not because they’re foreign. It’s because they BELIEVE being foreign makes a difference.
They approach women with the perfect attitude – one which assumes the woman wants you, but isn’t very bothered because there are plenty of other women too.
They don’t go out of their way to be clever or open with a bang or anything like that – they don’t believe they need it.
Instead, they just talk to women they find attractive, and see if they can have fun with those women.
And that, my friends, is EXACTLY THE WAY TO APPROACH EVERY WOMAN.

Problems with lines, expectations, and nerves
So many guys try to think of the perfect opener, spend hours working on a few, and then they never seem to work the way they’re supposed to.
That’s because it’s an OPENER – and women can sniff it a mile away.
And it doesn’t smell good.
Plenty of other guys get nervous before approaching – whether it’s been a long time, or they’ve had some bad experiences recently, or they are just plain inexperienced.
They are thinking “Don’t be weird, don’t be weird, don’t be weird” over and over.
Guess what that does? Makes ‘em weird.

E-lim-inate the Negative
Those negative mantras that fill your head always have you RUNNING from certain ways of being, instead of naturally BEING a way – any way, really, is better than AVOIDING a way.
So stop worrying about what you’re going to say – and just SAY something.
Stop wondering if your breath stinks, and LOOK HER IN THE EYES when you talk (you should take care of your breath earlier anyway – and halitosis is easier to overcome than conveying weakness or insecurity).
Don’t be scared of offending her – and instead HAVE FUN. Be playful, be naughty, say what entertains you – chances are she’ll be entertained too. And if she’s not, chances are still good she’ll notice your balls, saying what most people are scared to. And if she actually IS offended, unless you’ve been reciting the KKK Doctrine, you know she’s a humorless person who you wouldn’t want to be with anyway.
There’re better girls right around the corner. Or maybe in the very same group.

Ak-sen-chuate the positive
Roosevelt would say it like this: “There’s nothing to fear but fear itself.” The only thing that can make things go bad is if you’re SCARED they’ll go bad.
You’ll sabotage yourself. Just about every time.
The entire key to approaches – everything, all of it – is to come with RELAXED CONFIDENCE. Have the guts to have fun. Don’t be scared of losing a girl who you never had to begin with.
Just ENJOY yourself. Humans are very reactive creatures, so if you’re enjoying YOURSELF, people around you will feel that and start to enjoy THEMSELVES as well.

From the inside out
Now if you’re all scared and jumpy and nervous, you’ll cause the same reaction in the people around you and they’ll try to get the hell away as fast as they can.
Just RELAX. And say hi. And enjoy the ride – because if you’ve got the confidence to say what you think, the playfulness to enjoy yourself, and the relaxed attitude to erase tension, you’re going to have a VERY fun ride.
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The Best Flirting Tips

The Best Flirting Tips

10. Flirting is an attitude: A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive, it works!

9. Start a conversation: The best opening line is saying hello. Talk about he surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion.

8. Have fun: Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show your vulnerability.

7. Use props: Never leave home without a prop. Props are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you. Great props include: dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a fabulous scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite passion, interesting ties, hats, or an interesting book or newspaper.

6. Be the host: Change your behavior from the role of guest to host. You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee.

5. Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want to meet. Say hello!

4. Listen: You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard.

3. Eye contact: Make eye contact, but please look your partner in the eye gently (no more than
2-4 seconds) and then glance away. Don't stare - it's a turn off.

2. Compliment: Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments have the element of surprise. The "flirtee" will know that you really noticed them. Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment the best response is merely, Thank You!

1. Smile: It is contagious. It will make you so much more approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people to you.

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The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...

Some guys don't pay enough attention to the mindset required to attract women. They're all caught up in pickup lines, and "how to be a pickup artist."
Guys, no matter what "reality" television tells you, the world is governed by some very specific laws.

Here are a few of them:
1) Pickup lines don't work.
They are simply a tool that most guys latch on to as a "technique" for starting a conversation with a woman. There never has been "seven magic words" or any clever hypnotic pickup lines that make women drool with desire over you.
Don't fall for it.

2) Being a pickup artist does not get you laid.
Yep. You heard it first here.
The guys that try and play with your reality by promising you visions of "pickup artist" heaven - where you can use a few clever lines to get a girl to make out with you...
... Well, that's just what it looks like from the outside. On the inside, the story is very different.
What they don't tell you is about the countless nights spent learning a single skill to spark a woman's interest, and how many times they had to crash and burn to get it right.

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Palm Reading Pick Up

Grab a book on palm reading at your local bookstore and study it :P The trick is you dont have to memorize a ton of useless crap.

Always probe, once you/ve got the basics down, next time you're at a bar and you get good vibes from girl, smile, grab her hand, look at it, and say, "Hmm I see something very interesting about you" The key now is to shut up and let her respond. She'll almost always ask what, to which you reply by reading her palm. You might want to throw in to spice it up.. " and i can see you're a very sexual person." Most girls will think you're got psychic or at least think you're a fun guy. Remember, be light and playful.

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How to pick up women at the bookstore

Hey guys, let me share the effective pick up skills to pick up women at bookstore.

Bookstore are great place to picking up a women because you ussually find a smarter, more imaginative ones there. WOmen usually hang out in the art, sex, romance, or new age sections so hang around those areas especially. The key to pick-up is noticing what she's reading and take an interest in it.

Simply say. " I was curious about that book you're reading, is it any good?" She might ask you why, simply say, " Well, I have an interest in that subject..." and then make something up. She's interested in the subject too because she's reading about it so you'll both have something in common. After that i suggest you read her palm ( Palm reading pick-up ) Stay tune i'll post it in the next coming post. cya guy

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Hi guys, i had added a few features in my blog today.. hehe i added in a chat box just at the right hand side of the blog.. an a video clips... with two hot girls dancing with themself... Aren't they hot and sexy.. Wont you want to take her home? Hell yes for me :P Why i put the video in? Is to let you guys know that... with the knowledge of seducing or attraction.. you can bring them home without paying any cost.. Just imagining now... (She is lap dancing infront of you, holding her waist, spanking her ass .. thats what she like haha) Well keep visiting my blog ..there are more good stuffs coming in Tips of melting her heart... for free.. no worries.. hmmm i think i should offline now.. tired.. recently busy with work.. damn until no time to date.. currently i am engage with 3 girls... 1 of them keep complaining i no msg her and no time to date her.. :( tell you more about them next time... c ya..

The Dirty Seduction Secret- Create Moments of Distress and Anguish‏

Being just "nice" to a girl may draw her to you since it feelssoothing and comforting to her, but it doesn't make her feel SEXUALfeelings for you. Creating that erotic feeling depends more on just being nice,getting rapport, and making her feel comfortable. Erotic feelingdepends on the creation of TENSION. Without tension, without her feeling a little anxiety and suspense,there can be no feeling of release of true pleasure and joy. And your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away,to selectively withdraw, to delay a woman's satisfaction and makeher come after you. You want the woman to engage her own will inall its force, to become an active participant in the seduction. And the only way to accomplish this is to take a step back and makethem want to possess you, so that they will willingly advance intoyour arms. And here's how to do it.

STEP 1- CREATE A MOMENT OF JOY
Consider step one "the bait". Here you need to bait the woman witha promise or reward, whether be the hope of physical pleasure, thesocial proof of being associated with you, or simply mildattraction to you. Most guys get no farther than this- they entertain her peer group,read her palm, touch her, tell her some interesting stories, andgive her good feelings. But creating good feelings is not enough. You need to take it away.

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STEP 2- CREATE MOMENTS OF ANGUISH
Once, you have her affection, comfort, or slight attraction, yournext task is to create a moment of anguish. The feeling can beintense or subtle, by physically pushing the girl away, turningyour back on her, or falsely disqualifying yourself. You areliterally creating physical or emotional space between yourself andthe girl. Of course, you're not blatantly brushing the girl off or acting toocold, you're just creating a moment of slight doubt. Creating distance is like pumping raw jet fuel into the attractionmachine. Because it's in the ABSENCE where intense attractionhappens. It's when you are alone at night in your bed thinking about thegirl that you drive yourself crazy for her. And it's when you create space between yourself and the girl thatshe is driven crazy for YOU. All intense love and attraction is born out of moments of turmoiland distress. Falling in love is a mix of fear and excitement. Fear andexcitement makes you vibrate with sensation, heightens yourawareness, and is intensely erotic. The combination is a thrill. Before she can experience joy, and bliss, she has to experience itsopposite, loss. It is only in this momentary space where you giveher the feelings of erotic love, turbulent thoughts, longing, hope,and impatient expectancy. After all, an easy conquest has a lower value than a difficult one.We are only really excited by what is denied us, by what we cannotpossess. And don't worry- women will be less upset by your "push away" thanyou might imagine. In the world today, women feel starved forexperience. They crave emotion, even if it's negative. The "pain"you cause women by creating space is bracing and makes them feelmore alive. Your withdrawal will trigger her anxiety and the only way for herto relieve this anxiety is to pursue and possess you. Step backnow and you make her fall into your arms.

STEP 3- RELEASE THE TENSION
You create tension however not to hold it forever, but so that youcan release it. By closing the physical and emotional space again, you create mixedsignals that ignite the sexual tension and keep the woman emotionaland on edge. By closing the moment of tension or anguish, byrewarding her by connecting again, you allow for her to experiencea great release of the tension with joy. It's this back-and-forthmovement between hope and frustration that drives woman to haveintense sexual attraction to you. Create enough highs and lows and you will wear away the lastvestiges of a woman's willpower, and she will pursue you withdesperate energy. And again, don't be so "nice" all the time. You are most oftennice not out of your own inner goodness but out of fear ofdispleasing the woman, out of your own insecurity. Go beyond thatfear and you suddenly have options, like the freedom to create painand then magically dissolve it. The technique of inflicting distress and anguish works best onbeautiful women who have it easy. They are used to getting whatthey want right away by needy men, and being pushed away will comeas a real shock to them. Beautiful women in particular will chasewith particularly intense ferocity when pushed away. Sub-consciously, they secretly desire a man who will give themsomething to long for.

The Sure Fire Dating Tips

How to make women laugh

A lot of guys ask me how to be funny. After all, women all the time say they want to meet a guy who “makes them laugh”. The trick to being funny is forget “funny” and just be playful. If you’re playful, a girl will laugh. And the reason girls want to laugh is because they want to feel easy COMFORT around you. And one of the easiest ways to being playful is role play silly little fantasies in your conversations with a girl.
To give you an idea of what I’m talking about, here are some playful role playing interactions that I had on the phone with a girl.

OLIVE OIL BATH
Sabrina: "yeah I like to take showers. So can you take me to a little shower fantasy"
Derek: "Sure, but we’d use olive oil instead of water. Olive oil is good for your skin right?"
Sabrina: "I think so-"
Derek: "Yeah, but olive oil won’t come through the pipes so I’d make you sit in the tub and I dump buckets of warm, hot olive oil down your back."
Sabrina: "hmmmm"
Derek: "And slowly the tub would fill up with olive oil... and that warmth would spread all throughout your body... and then we’d jump out and our skin would be all oily and shiny"
Sabrina: "lol"
Derek: "And we’d leave olive oil footprints all over the floor as we ran around butt-naked trying to clean it up."
Sabrina: "lol. Yeah, but why waste all that olive oil when we could make a salad out of it?"
Derek: "Smart thinking, we’d dumped 40 heads of lettuce in there, a few tomatoes, a few onions, and we’d have enough Caesar salad to feed an army."
Sabrina: "lol"
See how I’m just making a rather ridiculous little story for her? And notice how it has a sexual connotation to it. When you wrap a sexual story in playfulness, women are not nearly as likely to resist it.

GREEK POOL PARTY FANTASY
Derek: "So what’s your house like"
Sabrina: "I’ve got a pool in the back"
Derek: "Awesome! We can throw pool parties back there..."
Sabrina: "pool parties? uh-"
Derek: "Or better yet, I’ll dress up like Zeus and you dress up like Athena and we’ll be like gods and goddesses hanging out at the pool"
Sabrina: "lol yes! I like that"
Derek: "And we’ll fill the pool up with olive oil and get all greasy. And crush grapes with our feet. It will rock."
Sabrina: "lol"
Derek: "Yeah... and we need to get a servant to hold up one of those huge Hossanah leaves and fan us down"
Sabrina: "Yeah... and I’ll blast the air conditioner so it goes out the window into the pool."
Derek: "Damn, you’re good at this aren’t you..."
Notice how I have her laughing. Am I cracking canned jokes? No. Am I racking my brain to be funny? No. The silliness and laughter comes naturally from the playful fantasy.

THE SEDONA VORTEX ANGELS
Sabrina: "Yeah, I felt a spiritual connection on top of the vortex in Sedona."
Derek: "Yeah, the most interesting thing happened to me while I stood on top the vortex.... ....I was standing up there and lo and behold my cell phone rings! Yeah, it was like the angels were phoning me!!"
Sabrina: "lol"
Derek: "Yeah, and what really shocked me was that I get perfect reception on top of a mountain vortex in the middle of nowhere yet I can’t get good reception in my own apartment. What’s up with that??"
Sabrina: "lol... yeah it’s terrible"
Derek: "Anyway, I get the phone and the angels start talking to me..."
Sabrina: "What did they tell you"
Derek: "You won’t believe this, but they gave me the secret of the meaning to life"
Sabrina: "Really? And what is the secret of the meaning to life"
Derek: "That can be yours for the low price of only $499.95!"
Sabrina: "lol that’s all?"
Derek: "Well, if you knew the secret, you wouldn’t think it was worth much more than that either--"
Sabrina: "lol... no, but didn’t you notice how commercial it is in Sedona?"
Derek: "Yeah... it’s like you can walk down from the vortex having had this incredible spiritual experience and walk right into McDonalds and... SUPER SIZE YOUR FRIES!!!"
Sabrina: "hahahahaha"
So be PLAYFUL and you’ll be funny. Be PLAYFUL and she’ll laugh. Be PLAYFUL and she’ll relax. Get the idea?
Check out my 3rd Edition Seduction Science System for even more great examples of how to keep women laughing and entertained and attracted.

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Until next time,
Derek Vitalio

Handling Girls with Boyfriends‏

A lot of guys ask me, "What do I say if she tells me she has aboyfriend?" The fact is, most beautiful women have a boyfriend most of thetime. If men are like spiders trying to catch as many women intotheir web as they can, women are like swinging tree-monkeys,swinging from boyfriend to boyfriend but never letting go of thefirst without having a second lined up to grab onto. So you can'tjust ignore women with boyfriends or you'll severely limit youroptions. Most of the time if a girl says she has a boyfriend, I just ignoreit and keep gaming her like I would normally. Usually, the chickwill come around. By the way, the worst thing you can do is let itstop you dead in your tracks - the girl is testing you to see ifyou're a wuss. One technique I also like to use is a "boyfriend destroyer". Aboyfriend destroyer is especially effective if her boyfriend is notmeeting her core values and she's looking to leave him anyway andjust needs an extra nudge out. For instance, last month I met a cute black-haired beauty by thepool and she was telling me how she had just broken up with herboyfriend and how he was such a jerk. She went on about him for tenminutes straight. She was getting more and more worked up it.Besides getting bored, I didn't want any of this negativityattached to me. So I told her, "Just imagine your ex-boyfriend three inches tall,like this, standing right on the table in front of you. Now I wantyou to take your hand and smash him and crumple him up in yourhands-" She immediately squashed her invisible ex against the table andcrumpled him up before I could finish! Then I told her, "And THROW him into the pool where he willdisappear! Splash! Gone!" She threw him in and after that never said one more word about him- only that I was so "intelligent" and "sweet" and "incredible"and... well you get the idea. But some women LIKE their boyfriends and there's little you can doto neutralize or destroy him in her mind. In that case you have totake a completely different approach. (The following conversationis simplified for clarity) One girl I met at a party casually mentioned her boyfriend inconversation. I said to her, "You know, I'm really curious aboutsomething... about your boyfriend, what about him first attractedyou?" She started telling me what it was about her boyfriend that firstattracted her. She said, "Well I wasn't attracted to him AT FIRST,but it was just the way he... and the way he... and..." This isimportant, because she's giving you step-by-step instructions onEXACTLY how to seduce her! I then asked her, "When you first fell in love with this personwhat exactly did you feel?" No matter what she says, she'll lightly go into that state of firstfalling in love as she accesses it in her mind - with YOU causingthe good feeling in her. I asked her, "Where did that feeling start?" She told me in her chest (they'll usually say in their throat orstomach). Then I asked her, "From your chest, where did it go it next?" She told me it went down to her tummy. I said, "Now let me get this straight... I was actually talking toa friend of mine last week and with her when she feels she'sattracted to a person she said it starts in her throat, but for youit starts here in your chest..." I touched her chest. "And then down to your tummy right," I saidtracing my finger down to her naval. I've now just elicited HER particular process of becoming attractedand then LED her through it by tracing the path of that feelingwith my finger (and anchored that incredible feeling to my fingeras I touched her). In effect, I created the experience of "becomingattracted" for her as I traced the feeling with my finger along herskin - all with the excuse of, "Now let me see if I got what yousaid straight." I finished up with, "It's kind of weird that way... how you justbecome attracted to someone like that... as if it just explodesinside of you when it hits your tummy... but things like that canjust happen and in my opinion you should never try to fightsomething like that." As a final note, you MUST have some level of rapport when you pulla move like this. The more rapport you have with her, the bettershe'll respond and more powerful the effect will be. For even more great tips and techniques, check out my SeductionScience System, the 3rd Edition- now in instant downloadable MP3format- http://www.seductionscience.com/jump.php?a=2936&p=3rdeditionebook Everything you need to succeed with women, from finding them,approaching them, talking with them, and seducing them is all rightthere in my one program.http://www.seductionscience.com/jump.php?a=2936&p=3rdeditionebook

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