Secrets of Talking With Women - Part 2

Silence is nice, but… let’s talk

Still, sometimes you will find yourself in need of something to talk about. And your mind will be blank. You know the time for conversation is here – but you’re clueless how to start it.
Well, this is one of the reasons I recommend avoiding dinners and traditional dates, and prefer shared activities. Especially in fun cool areas. Who needs to worry about conversation when there’s a man on a leash walking in front of you on the sidewalk, or a shop window with a dismembered mannequin head smeared with lipstick wearing a Ronald McDonald wig and a sign saying “Love me?”
If you can’t think of anything to say in stimulating areas, then you’re just not trying. Or you’re freaking – in which case you need to use one of your relaxation triggers to get yourself CALM and able to THINK.
Come on, some of our granddaddies kept their heads with the enemy shooting at them. You can do it with an attractive lady.
But you can’t ALWAYS be in a Greenwich Village knockoff. Sometimes you need to come up with topics all by your lonesome, right?
Wrong. See, the definition of conversation is you have to have at least two people. And that dynamic helps a lot.
Having the conversation SHE wants, every time
Lets borrow a trick from sales, where the seller needs to establish a friendly connection quickly. How do they do it?
They listen for key words in statements they hear. And you can do the same. One simple sentence from your favorite lady can lead to a night’s worth of dialogue.

Example:
“Hi.”
“No, I’m not. Or were you offering? I barely know you, and already you bring psychotropic drugs into our relationship? Wow, you are one crazy chick.”
(She should be laughing, if you delivered it right and she isn’t a nun.) “No, I don’t do drugs on a first date!” (key word: take your pick, drugs or date)
“Oh, but on the second you jump right in? You’ve said two things, and they both relate to illicit substances. Get your mind out of the gutter and learn to enjoy life clean too.” (Then order her a beer).
See what’s going on? Just pick a key word from her conversation, and riff off it. The above doesn’t apply because it’s too early in your duologue, but even within a few minutes of talking to ANYONE you’ll hear them use keywords that are important to THEM for whatever reason. Hook onto those and she’ll think you’re the greatest conversationalist ever – because all you talk about is what interests HER.

Example:
“That dog smells like a Thai sewer.” (key word: Thai)
“And how would you know? When were you in Thailand?”
“Last month, actually. It’s insane!” (key word: insane)
“And that’s what attracted you about it? You wanted to find others as crazy as you are?”
“No! I went to get my scuba diving certification.” (key word(s): scuba diving, and you have a topic for the next 15 minutes that you KNOW she wants to talk about).

“Homework”

Pretty easy, eh? In fact, it’s so easy, I’m going to make your homework nice and simple. Go out and have five conversations where you cue the other person off their keywords.
Have five more where you NEVER start a topic, and see how the silence feels, bearing in mind that you are SEEKING it.
Finally, pick five interesting eclectic spots near you, and go for a walk in them. Just comment in your head on what you see.
That’s it. Enjoy your new expression of personal wit and get out there and impress some ladies with it. You’re ready.
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Enjoy.
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